Strive to See Past Differences

LCCBlazerCrestAt the beginning of the year, I set foot at LCC with an uncertain step. My transition to a school with many more students as before disoriented me, and even the sheer size of the real estate was intimidating.

But the main thing was, I came from Selwyn House. Some don’t think too highly of the guys there. I’m sure many of you have made fun of the phrase “we know boys.” But the mockery goes both ways: people at Selwyn think that here, we’re really good at “grade inflation.” Of course, these things are said as a joke, but they’re still stereotypes. So why do they exist?

If you think about it, the two schools aren’t really that different from each other. Both are expensive private schools. If I were to step into one of the twenty or so public schools in Montreal, my views of Selwyn and LCC would probably be identical: schools for the “rich kids.”

So let’s take a look at the history. Both schools were founded within a year of each other, and before 1995, LCC was also an all-boys school. So we were rivals for close to a century, and maybe we can still feel that residual hostility as an undercurrent today.

Nevertheless, when I got here, I was surprised by how nice everyone is. I still can’t say which school is better, and I don’t think I ever will. They are schools with slightly different priorities and philosophies, but at the core, they both have a tight community that makes school what it is. I think I have the best of both worlds now, and more importantly, the change has given me a wider perspective. If you step outside of what you’re used to, you can get a bigger picture and see for yourself instead of hearing the maybe biased opinion of others.

And this isn’t just about what’s between LCC and Selwyn. This inter-school relationship shows that we should strive to see past our differences, because in the end, those differences are negligible. Beware of stereotypes. LCC and Selwyn are both great schools, and we should have as much mutual respect as we have mutual characteristics. After all, Mr. Shannon graduated from Selwyn House, and Mr. Hannaford, the headmaster at Selwyn House, attended LCC. As reflected by our school motto, we are selfless, respectful and open-minded. Non Nobis Solum. –Daniel Wen ’14

Distraction Addiction

student-distractedAll of us wrestle with a unique 21st century paradox.  We constantly use a host of digital technologies that are designed to enhance our lives and our capacity to communicate more broadly and effectively. However, rather than simply solve problems, these very same tools often contribute to a rising sense of anxiety. Notably, this also applies to our teenage students. Stanford university professor Alex Joo Sum-Kim Pang researches this phenomenon at a special think tank in California. He calls it “distraction addiction” and warns that we should be proactive in handling the emerging challenges that digital connectivity has swept into our lives. He stresses to educators like me that endless multi-tasking by teens has a cognitive cost and can literally impede the proper development of their brains.  In the extreme, he calls this a “mindless mindset,” which interferes with building an all-important “positive mindset” that is key to learning and development in all students.

Pang believes that we can interrupt the cycle of the “mindless mindset” that leads to a “distraction addiction.” Here are four concrete suggestions:

  1. Email:  Be more purposeful. Don’t check your messages all the time; only check two or three times per day when you actually have a moment to respond if necessary.
  2. Multi-tasking: Pang believes multitasking gets a bad rap and can be done productively, but only with a focus on a single purpose.  So Multi-task but don’t switch tasks. For example, in preparing a meal in the kitchen you can be sautéing meat in a frying pan while chopping vegetables, but those different tasks are aimed at a single purpose. For students, when it comes to a research assignment, seek articles on different websites and watch a short video on You Tube related to the same topic. However, they should not mix that up with assignments for three other academic subjects while also chatting with friends on several social media sites.
  3. Social Media: In Pang’s words “Tweet mindfully.” He reminds us to always remember why we are on any particular social media platform and that we should only go online with a single intention.  We should remember that there are always real people at the other end – and what one says online can and will have impact. So we should never submit to a first impulse, especially if it’s a sarcastic comment or simply blathering on.
  4. Remember to Breathe: One of the most unique terms Pang has introduced is “email apnea.” His research shows that most people hold their breath when they check their email. Holding our breath, Pang explains, “reflects the anxiety many of us feel as we check for new messages in our inbox, not knowing what new fires we’ll have to put out or what problems we’ll have to solve.” It also shows how our minds, bodies, and computers are very deeply entangled. Like a lot of other problems Pang describes, “email apnea” can be improved by being mindful of one’s breathing and consciously taking breaks from our screens from time to time. Our relationship with digital technology doesn’t have to be an all-or-nothing approach, but we can go a lot further in improving daily quality of life by being more intentional in how we use digital tools.

Finally, I will add my own suggestion:

5. Disconnect: Where and when possible, be purposeful and go offline. This will enhance your connections with other people and your capacity for reflection and deep thought which are so essential to both productivity and creativity.

Professor Pang reminds us that “the highest levels of happiness come from people who are absorbed in difficult tasks… digital connection is inevitable, but distraction is a choice.” So don’t succumb to the “distraction addiction,” just try to make good choices. Go ahead and tackle difficult tasks today—one at a time. By managing technology better, we can live better, and not drown in it. —Christopher Shannon, Headmaster

Australia Exchange: Thank You For An Amazing Experience!

Three days left and still I am wondering where the time has gone? This entire exchange feels as if it has flown by in a matter of minutes. I have made so many good friends here and will definitely miss them, as well as the school. I would like to thank Ballarat Grammar for making this exchange possible, and I would especially like to thank Matt, his brother Dan, Mother Amanda and Father Alan for being such amazing, friendly and welcoming hosts. I don’t think I could have possibly had a better host family! They have showed me so much throughout my time here and I am so grateful for all they have done.

 

The last two weeks have been nothing but busy (in a good way.) Last week, I was invited to speak with up and coming francophones in the grade 7 French class. I spoke to them about the importance of learning French, as well as life in Montreal. Although they did not understand much of what I said, they all seemed to enjoy the presentation quite well, giving me positive feedback, followed by smiles and “Bonjour Ryan!” as we crossed paths around the school.

 

On the weekend, we decided to drive into Melbourne, which is about an hour and a half away from Ballarat. While in Melbourne, we were lucky enough to experience the Australian Grand Prix atop the Eureka Skydeck, which is essentially the Sears Tower of the Southern hemisphere. This was a very amazing experience, as I had never even watched The Canadian Grand Prix, which is located in our own backyard!

 

Later that day, we visited an old, decommissioned prison where Ned Kelly, Victorian vigilante was hung. We took a tour of the prison, which included a bunch of historical information and cells open for public exploration.

 

After lunch, we made our way over to the ETIHAD stadium to watch Carlton play Port Adelaide. Being the first time watching Australian Rules football, I was quite confused at first, but eventually understood the concept, as it is much simpler then American Football. I had a great time at the game and we had a lot of fun.

 

 

Last weekend, we went to Matt’s vacation home in a beautiful region called Halls Gap. Halls Gap is located within a valley surrounded by Rocky Mountains. The area is full of wildlife. Kangaroos were such a common site in Halls Gap, they were essentially like squirrels! We saw them everywhere in huge packs of 30! Right next to Matt’s house is a large clearing where we saw hundreds of kangaroos sprinting past the window each day, a couple of rabbits, kookaburras, cockatoos, a family of deer, emus and even an echidna!  While there, we went driving in the mountains and rock climbing! – Ryan Hawa ’16

Student Exchange Australia: Passionate About Rowing!

photo 2-1 copy

The past few weeks have gone by so quickly! It felt as if I was just starting to settle in when I realized I would be leaving on Sunday, March 16. I was having so much fun I decided to ask my parents if I could stay longer. So I am now in my official second last week here in Ballarat, Australia. It has been such a wonderful experience not only meeting new people and seeing a different culture but also being able to live in a completely different place.

 

Last weekend, Clare brought me to her farm, which is about an hour and half drive from her house. The farm is in the middle of nowhere, the closest house is 5 km away and it’s Clare’s grandparents’ house! They have so much land, which is really cool because you can do anything. When we got there, we went horseback riding on their own horses. Later that day, we went motor biking which was extremely fun. I had never ridden a motorbike before but it was very cool to have complete control of where I was going. The next day, we went to Melbourne to go shopping and in the evening went to the musical Grease, which I thought was a great show. Overall, it was an exhilarating and busy weekend.

 

My exchange partner Clare coxes the Senior 1st Crew for the rowing team at Ballarat Grammar. I have been going to many of her practices including the early ones at 6 am! I usually go on a motorboat with their coach Bill to watch them and of course he coaches them. This has been such an incredible experience. Bill is one of the most inspiring people I have ever met. The way he talks about the sport just shows you that he is so keen and passionate about it. He has taught me a lot about rowing over the past few weeks. Last week, he even let me try to row with the other girls! I am lucky enough to be able to go to the Australian Nationals next week in Sydney. All the best schools will show up to compete against each other. I will be there to support the Ballarat Grammar team! Unfortunately, I will miss the final since I am leaving on the Saturday of that week.

I am very excited to see my family and friends again but at the same time I don’t want to leave! Hopefully the next two weeks don’t pass by too quickly. – Clara MacIntosh ’14 (LCC Exchange Student @ Ballarat Grammar in Melbourne, Australia)

La Jolie France – Semaine 1: Le voyage de l’année est enfin arrivé!

 

Je suis finalement arrivée en France le 16 mars à huit heures du matin après des mois d’attente pour rencontrer la famille de ma correspondante Marie. Dès que j’ai récupéré mes valises à l’aéroport et que j’ai rencontré la famille de ma correspondante, mon trajet a commencé!

 

La famille était très sympathique lorsqu’ils m’ont souhaité la bienvenue dans leur maison. Les parents de Marie, Xavier et Emmanuelle, cuisinent tous les repas dans la maison et ils sont vraiment bons. Sa petite sœur, qui s’appelle Léonora, chante tout le temps dans sa chambre et ça éclaire toute la maison. Enfin, il y a son petit frère qui s’appelle Noé, et il aime jouer avec des legos. Il n’y a pas un moment ennuyeux dans cette maison. La famille habite à Chantilly qui se trouve une heure en dehors de Paris, avec une population d’environ 11 000 habitants.

 

À Chantilly il y a des maisons qui ont l’air anciennes, mais très classiques et élégantes. Il y a beaucoup des choses à visiter dans cette ville. Par exemple, il y a le Château de Chantilly, L’Église Notre-Dame de Chantilly, l’Hippodrome de Princes de Conde, et bien sûr, beaucoup des magasins et restaurants à côté de sa maison. J’aime beaucoup le paysage, et la température est beaucoup mieux comparée au froid de Montréal. J’ai hâte de commencer l’école et de rencontrer les amis de Marie! – Ilana Singer ’16, Lycée St-Vincent à Senlis